As human beings, we are exquisitely sensitive—touched by the subtlest sensations, stirred by the world around us. And most profoundly, we are sensitive to other people. There are obviously challenges to being relationally sensitive. There is also power.
When another person enters our field of awareness, our relational sensitivities are awakened. In real-time—whether face-to-face or through technology—social contact sets up complex and potentially reactive conditions. Our bodies, emotions, and thoughts are triggered, and between two or more people, feedback loops amplify these responses. This creates a relational multiplier effect that holds immense power. Relational engagement can sustain suffering or deepen wisdom.
We see every day how relational power drives abuse, inequity, and war. But the Dhamma shows us another way.
Jesus was referring to this relational power when he said, “When two or more are gathered in my name, there am I among them.” The Buddha pointed to the same truth: “Spiritual friendship is the whole of the holy life.” And today, advertisers, politicians, and technologists all harness the force of interpersonal influence to shape behaviour. The habits of mind, relational conditioning, and social momentum are strong. We need to wake up to them and engage this power wisely. We cannot walk this path alone.
Well aimed, relational practice strengthens our path. Engaged with awareness and guided by wisdom, our relationships become a source of insight and liberation. The Dhamma gives us the understanding to direct this relational power wisely. And this very power helps us realize the fullness of the Dhamma. In our time together, we will explore how this relational power can amplify and sustain meditative qualities.
In this online session, we will explore the intersection of relational multiplier and the Dhamma through brief periods of silence, guided Insight Dialogue practice, and shared investigation.
